Too Many Toys? 8 Ways to Declutter With Your Kids

Cathie Ericson
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The must-have action figures.

The stuffed animal you “won” at the fair (after spending $60 on tickets to “win” it!)

Even the junk that came with their kids’ meal or birthday loot bag.

Ask any kid which of their toys are special, and they are bound to say all of them.

It’s no surprise, says Elana Kleinman, a professional organizer and mom of three in Toronto, Canada: “Kids place a huge value on their toys because, in essence, they are the only things they ‘own.’”

We all know that that toy overload can drive parents crazy. Who among us hasn’t wanted to just go on a pitching spree while the kids were at grandma’s?

With the holidays upon us, many households might be thinking of imposing the “one in, one out rule”. That means clearing out the outdated and worn out toys to make room for the new ones that your young ones will be unwrapping come Christmas.

Purging in Secret

A SpareFoot survey found that parents believe they could get rid of about one-third of their kids’ toys without them noticing. (Although, pity the 8 percent of parents who said they couldn’t get rid of any of them!)

Although the stealth option can sound appealing, in general, it’s probably better to make clean-out a joint effort for three reasons:

It’s hard to know what’s really a favorite. Professional organizer Stephanie Jones suggests you keep an eagle eye on what your kids actually play with for two weeks to a month.

“This is an important step because the kids are going to swear they play with the toys you want to get rid of,” Jones says. However, when it comes down to it, you don’t really know the back story on why some toys merit a special place in your kid’s heart so it’s always best to ask.

You can model altruistic behavior. The purge process presents the perfect opportunity to have a low-key convo about giving to others.

“I talk to my kids about how some children are not as blessed as they are with material goods, age appropriately, of course,” says Kleinman.

You are building an important skill. That ever-growing Star Wars figurine collection doesn’t mean your kid will be a hoarder, but knowing how to purge excess items will serve them well when they are adults, says Amy Bell, a professional organizer and owner of Red Chair Home Interiors in Cary, NC.

Now that you’ve resolved to purge your kids’ toy collection with them, where do you begin?

Pile of Toys

1. Get Ready, Get Set

Empty the entire room into a staging area and have the kids help you sort into categories, Kleinman advises.

“It takes longer but it’s a good learning tool for children and allows them to feel in control of the process.”

You also might want to just do a couple of categories at a time, depending on their interest level.

“They’ll be more willing to part with a puzzle when they see a teetering stack of 15 other puzzles remaining,” says Bell.

2. Do the Easy Stuff First

Whatever is broken, missing pieces or a duplicate can go right away, making the pile look more manageable.

3. Ask Questions

Make sure they are part of the process by making them really think about the toys that are left, Jones recommends. You can ask how often they play with something; if they prefer thing one or thing two; or if they have outgrown a toy.

Little Girl Power

4. Respect Their Decisions

So this is where it can get sticky for moms: “But Aunt Alice gave you that!” “I loved playing with that when I was your age.”


“I’ve seen too many parents who second-guess the giveaways,” says Certified Professional Organizer Katherine Trezise of Absolutely Organized, LLC in Atlanta.

If something is a family heirloom you’re planning to store, don’t let them choose.

5. Put Some Toys in Time Out

If your child really can’t decide, or they are attached to items they clearly have outgrown, try putting those toys in a “ripening box,” suggests Trezise.

“Label the box with the date, and then store it out of sight. In six months or so, let the box go if the child hasn’t asked for anything in it.”

6. Time it Right

A good time to pass along old toys is right after the child’s birthday or Christmas/Hanukkah, when the new toys need to find a home, Bell says.

Jones recommends a more regular purge, making it a seasonal habit so you have four turns at stopping the accumulation monster. That also lets you remember that this squirt gun wasn’t as fun as it looked in the ad, for example, so it doesn’t hang around all winter.

Playing nice

7. Store Smart

Now that you’ve purged to a manageable level, make sure the toys are stored in an organized fashion, with appropriate shelving or bins to store like with like. Many families swear by the “one in, one out” policy to keep the clutter under control. Finally, rotating toys can help keep them fresh.

8. Do What You Have to Do

Feeling guilty because you’re a tosser? Kleinman’s got your back.

“I do, on occasion, throw toys out secretly. If the kids notice, I usually just tell them that I threw it out because it was damaged. They tend to respond better to that than saying, ‘You never play with it anymore.’”


Editor's Note: This article was originally published on December 6, 2016 and has been updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.

Cathie Ericson

Cathie Ericson is a freelance writer specializing in business, health and lifestyle topics. Read more of her work at
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